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Online Couples Therapy for Infidelity

Online Therapy for Infidelity

Get Back Your Trust in Your Partner: Get Help from a Certified Online Psychotherapist

Online Therapy for Infidelity | English Speaking Psychotherapist

Have you discovered a partner’s infidelity?
Angry? Scared? Do you worry to the point of panic? Do you imagine your life and relationship to be finished? Do you wonder: “How am I going to go on? This is too much.” or “I’ll never trust anyone again.” Are you so angry that you are unsure what you are capable of? Do you ask: “How could they do *this* to me? Didn't they love me?"

Have you been unfaithful?
Unsure if you should disclose this? Burning with guilt? Is your guilt driving you even further apart as you become increasingly unfaithful?

Online therapy for infidelity can help.

Therapy reduces stress, fear and anger. Therapy helps clients traumatized by unfaithfulness. Therapy gives you a safe place in which you air your grievances. Therapy helps you regain a sense of what is real. Therapy helps you process rage. Therapy helps you rebuild your self-esteem and discover what you need to do next. If you are the unfaithful one, therapy can help you. With therapy, you clarify why you do what you do. Therapy gets you moving beyond your compulsions. Therapy can save your current relationship.

What are my qualifications and accreditations to help you with this?

I am a RCC (Registered Clinical Counsellor): this is a professional accreditation with BCACC. I am also accredited with BDP (Germany’s Psychologist registrar). Among other specialities, I specialize in working with infidelity. I have a Masters-degree with an Honours designation in Counselling Psychology from the The University of British Columbia, Canada (UBC).

“But everything is too screwed up!”

If you consider therapy, a sliver of hope remains. I have seen dramatic changes in relations where partners have been unfaithful. Some do breakup; however, some stay together and get stronger. My suggestion to all couples facing infidelity: get clarity before the split. To abandon each other because of an infidelity inflicts damage. Without clarity of what took place, one tends to end in the same situation again.

“A therapist will try to get us back together. I don’t want that.”

Some therapists may be pro-relationship. I am not. If a couple is not meant to be together, I allow their split to occur. I look at each couple as a special case. Some need the shock of infidelity to clarify their love for each other. Some were too scared to be intimate. While other couples need an infidelity to realize that they were not in love. These couples need to move on. Whatever the case, I support you and guide you to your own conclusions.

“I feel embarrassed by what I’ve done. It’s not just one infidelity either...”

Many avoid therapy believing a therapist will judge them and they'll feel even worse. Good therapists don't judge. You don’t need to spill your guts in the first session. In fact, it is wise to take your time. Let the relationship with me develop. When you are ready, share what is bothering you. Go at a pace that feels comfortable. Tell me as much, or as little, as you want in our initial sessions.

For some, coming to see a therapist is too scary. Clients feel a lot of anxiety when they first see a therapist. This is common. So, accept your anxiety and fear. Don't fight it or make it go away. Note: my role as therapist is to make you feel welcome and comfortable.

“You’ll make me tell my partner about what I did!”

No. The choice to tell your partner about what you are doing is yours. I aim to support you in whatever path you feel is best for you. If the timing is not right for you to tell, we don't do it. I never push—I listen and try to help you know yourself.

I remember seeing Tidal for the first time and how worried I was to tell anyone about what was going on with me. Tidal makes it easy to open up and talk about everything. I mean *everything*. He’s also very frank and honest but I never felt judged. We had a very good relationship and he helped me see where I was going so I could turn it around.
My husband and I are eternally grateful for your support and guidance during our most trying time. Thank you Tidal. You helped us save what we thought was over.

Why choose me as your therapist?

Unlike other therapists, I go deep. I want to discouver the psych issues at play within your relationship. What are your sexual and relational dynamics? I facilitate your exploration into this inner world. Let's tease out your symbols, desires and passions. The deeper we go, the better for you. Growth is a challenge going deep rewards.

I am comfortable with discussing all kinds of sex. There is nothing off-limits or taboo in my sessions. I’m aware of how anxious you might feel talking sex and unfaithfulness with each other. Not only with a complete stranger! I’ll help set you and your partner at ease. I guide my clients into talking frankly of infidelity. Let's discover its relation to your future.

“We want to start working with you. What’s next?”

To make an initial session with me, click on the buttons below and schedule your first. I welcome new clients. I look forward to meeting and helping you.